Why Saying ‘That Costs an Arm and a Leg’ Is Quietly Undermining Your Purpose

Every day, in Facebook groups, community chats, and casual conversations, people are asking for help:

“I’m looking for a web designer, but not someone who costs an arm and a leg.”
“I need a mentor—just not one that costs an arm and a leg.”

It sounds lighthearted, maybe even a bit funny. But beneath that well-worn phrase lies something deeper—and more dangerous.

We don’t say it because it’s literal. We say it because it’s a socially acceptable way of asking for something great. It’s a shortcut. A script. And it’s quietly programming your brain to believe a story that was never meant for you.

In this video, we unpack the real origin of “That costs an arm and a leg,” debunk a common myth, and explore how language influences your brain, your behavior, and your worth and your ability to live on purpose.

You’ll learn why phrases like this aren’t just harmless, they’re often a subconscious way to avoid responsibility and stay in comfort. Most importantly, you’ll discover how to reframe your words to align with action, accountability, and abundance.

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